Dear World: I Bought a Big, Weird House in the Countryside as a Woman By Myself

9/09/2023

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  1. R Perry says:

    I love this article so much I just shared it with my “Chignon 7” business besties group. When imposter syndrome rears it’s ugly head I quote TMFP all the time and they throw it right back in my face when I falter as well. Thanks, Ash! xo Roberta

    • Ash Ambirge says:

      I’ll let you know how long it takes before I’m crawling out of my skin, ha!!!!! But, no: I have been craving an offline project, so I definitely got myself one. 😂 Everytime I have regrets I will just keep telling myself it’s charming!!!

  2. Heather Hardy says:

    Heck yes! This is so amazing. I’m at the other end of quit job, sell house, downsize and disappear for awhile. Preferably in Ireland. LOL. What a gorgeous house! <3

    • Ash Ambirge says:

      Oh, trust me – I’m sure I’ll be there in about 5 minutes. 😂 Especially to go to Ireland! I was hoping to get over that way this fall to do some walking—The Cotswolds in England is just soooooooooooo my kinda place. Rooting you on for this fun-ass journey!

  3. Jessica Miller says:

    Where have you been all my life? I’m in a complete “burn it all down” mindset about my over twenty year career and planning to pick up and move to Europe. It’s terrifying and exhilarating.

    • Ash Ambirge says:

      I just subscribed to your Substack!!! LOVE that you are chronicling this. I was just in Milan, Verona, Venice, Slovenia a few months ago. Yes, yes, yes!!!!!!!!!! Is Italy the final destination, you think?!

      • Jessica Miller says:

        Italy is our #1 right now. Keeping things fluid on the how. I have several paths sketched out so it’s just a matter of which one starts to take shape. And THANK YOU for subscribing!! It’s nice when you make your declaration public – it keeps you accountable to show up for yourself when others are watching. Just subscribed to Selfish School too!

        • Ash Ambirge says:

          Looking forward to following along! Italy continues to be one of my favs on the list of “places I’d actually live.” KEEP GOING!!!!!!!!

  4. Elle Wolfe says:

    Congratulations on the house AAAAAAsh!! I hope you turn the other one into a comfy Airbnb! 🤗

    • Ash Ambirge says:

      Omg THANK YOU!!!!! That’s def my plan! I can’t wait to make it all tartan / fires / whiskey / blankets / cozy / ski cabin galore!!!!!!!!!!!! I’ll have to hire you for a consult!!!!

      • Elle Wolfe says:

        Can’t wait to hear what you name it! 😂 A couple of weeks ago I was just reading about how thirsty travelers are for unique vacation rental design experiences. Everything from houseboats, to converted school buses and airplane hangars. Someone in Texas turned a cottage into a chic retreat inspired by the characters from the game Clue. There is the Colonel Mustard room, etc.

  5. Deonna Lindsay-Lewis says:

    I feel like you know this already but in case you don’t….. I f*ckin’ love you. This article was everything.

    • Ash Ambirge says:

      What a LOVELY comment to find here today. Thank you for taking the time out of your life to leave it! And….HI!!!!! 💛

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